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5 Simple Ways to Raise Your Sexual Self-esteem

by Monica Ma |

If you would ask a random woman on the street if she is satisfied with her body you most likely, besides an awkward gaze, get a No for an answer. The truth is, almost every woman has something about their body they would like to change. At the same time, however, most women also have a part of their body that they wouldn’t swap for anything in the world!

Whether it’s our chest, neck, nose, navel, or eyes - it’s time that we forget about the things we do not like about ourselves. Instead, let’s focus on our good parts and embrace those parts of our body that we do love. Being positive about yourself is a whole lot easier than you may think and believe us when we’re saying that it really works wonders when it’s about increasing your sexual self-esteem.

Below, Luvkis has listed down 5 simple ways in which you can raise your sexual self-esteem. Check them out and, before you know it, you’ll be able to feel confident about your body like the sexy goddess you really are!


1) Understand that he’s not looking

Sure, we know our body better than anyone else and we can provide an entire list of things we’re not happy with simply because we’ve had the time to look at your bodies for our entire life. When it comes to your partner, however, the truth is that it’s highly unlikely that he’ll find any imperfections of your body while having sex. In fact, one interesting little sex fact about men is that they don’t notice the imperfections of a woman’s body during sex. Why? Because they simply are not looking!


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Source: Get Green Be Well


The truth is that during sex, the brain of a man is so busy with the act of having sex itself that he won’t even be looking at your body. As of such, he won’t have any time to notice those minute imperfections of your body that you’re so worried about. Therefore, it really is a waste of time and energy to worry about something he won’t even notice at the first place. So, ladies, be kinder to yourself and don’t focus on what you believe are your shortcomings.


2) Dress the way you feel comfortable

Clothes are a great way to express ourselves. Not only do they allow you to tell people around you what kind of person you are, but they also make you feel more comfortable and confident when worn correctly. As of such, dressing up according to your own dress code is a great way to raise your sexual self-esteem. It furthermore offers you a great way to highlight the best bits of your body that you wish to show off. Naturally, this doesn’t only apply to the clothes we wear on the street.


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Source: Vox


When it comes to sex, many girls like to wear sexy lingerie or nightwear. Nowadays, there are many sorts of ladies underwear to be found on the market that are perfect for making girls of any size feel confident about their bodies. Wearing sexy lingerie does not only turn your partner on, but it’s also guaranteed to make you feel more comfortable when getting undressed.


3) Know that not every man is the same

As we all know, not a single person is the same when it comes to sexual attraction and preference. Because of this, it’s important that we understand that not every guy out there is looking for a girl with the shape of a supermodel. Sure, most of them feel attracted to a girl like that, but at the same time, they all understand that the chances of them getting on with such a girl are minimal. A guy loves you for who you are no matter your imperfections in the same way as we love them even though he may not look like one of those muscular and well-trained hotties we see running around in the movies. So, instead of worrying about your so-called shortcomings, be glad he loves you for who you really are.


4) Act confident

Whether you’re feeling it or not, acting confident is one of the sexiest things a girl can do in the eyes of a guy. Confidence is attractive no matter what you look like. It does, however, not come easy. This is especially the case if you’re feeling insecure about yourself. Luckily, there are always ways to build on your confidence.


Source: Luvkis


One of the most effective (and fun) ways to give your confidence a boost is through becoming more familiar with your body. Knowing what turns you on and gives you pleasure is guaranteed to give you an advantage during your next sexual encounters. Getting to know your body by yourself is luckily very easy. All you need are some exciting sex toys for women and you’ll be ready to start exploring.


5) Try these simple exercises

We all know that exercise is good for you and, when it comes down to sex, this is no exception. In fact, there are several easy exercises for better sex. These can be easily performed at home and allow you to become more skillful under the blankets, resulting in increased self-esteem. Added to that, these exercises are also good for your overall health, making them perfect to try no matter how you look at it. So, what are you still waiting for? Get up and get ready to get sweaty! With these exciting sex exercises, you’ll soon be able to enjoy sex in a way you never did before.

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